Personal debrand

i wanted to be something so bad i forgot how to be anything

May 10 • Valerie

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Sanity Reads

what i read when i'm losing it

May 3 • Valerie

42

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5

April 2026

AI's got nothing on a woman's loneliness

out: optimization. in: the void in my heart

Apr 26 • Valerie

289

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72 hours in Paris as an ex-Parisian

A guide for individuals with self-respect (no Café de Flore)

Apr 17 • Valerie

35

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You are a nowhere girl

I've written 75,000 words & have no opinions left

Apr 9 • Valerie

264

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March 2026

Time and everything it touches

Materials from Timing: the writing workshop I hosted in Amsterdam

Mar 31 • Valerie

42

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Hungry for it

A study in kissing

Mar 24 • Valerie

243

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Things to do instead of staring in the mirror

10 better ways to feel sorry for yourself

Mar 15 • Valerie

65

2

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Everyone is really fucking thin. Am I allowed to say it?

Or are we gonna keep the whole pilates & protein tale going

Mar 8 • Valerie

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February 2026

Friction is evidence

Let me convince you that it's working

Feb 23 • Valerie

234

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What's valentine's day when you've got nothing to say?

big hearts big day big notions

Feb 14 • Valerie

26

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The wanting complex

to daters looking for larger-than-life love

Feb 12 • Valerie

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