Meet me at the intersection of tech and womanhood
Female desire in the ephemeral digital
Everybody wants to kiss. Everybody wants to stand, perched over the parapet, mouth open, magenta cheeks, ready to receive. You’re food and drink to me, Henry Miller writes to Anaïs Nin after they meet in Paris.1
The hungriest of us are curious about our own desire: its novelty, its nature, duration. We want to know how it has morphed and changed from Sappho all the way to the intelligence age and algorithmic hyperawareness.
What is female desire as a theme and a structure? Is it ambivalent or direct, steady or ephemeral — and what’s that symptomatic of? Does it get flattened online or expressed more freely?
What does female desire look like today in a world where women are being sold Meta glasses and VC-backed shopping plugins presented as revolutionary tech inventions?
I invite you to join me on August 27 or September 1 for an online discussion/workshop to reflect on the above. (The sessions are identical and divided for time zone convenience — select your preferred date!)
We will be dissecting desire in the ephemeral digital through my favorite literature, media, and pop culture gems, from Anne Carson to Caroline Polachek and tech memes. Probably the only online event where you’ll get this range of references. Just saying….
All participants receive the syllabus ahead of the event to get familiar with the material, and everyone gets the opportunity to talk/chat/connect/reflect/ask and answer questions. Or simply listen with your camera & mic off if you feel like it — we’re in the ephemeral digital, after all.
$35
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See you soon!
I wrote this in my essay Hungry for it.





